First published in the Chicago Free Press, August 23, 2006
About a month ago a group of self-described "LGBT and allied activists, scholars, educators, writers, artists, lawyers, journalists, and community organizers" issued a manifesto titled "Beyond Same-Sex Marriage" in which they demanded legal "recognition of diverse kinds of partnerships, households, kinship relationships and families" with "access to a flexible set of economic benefits and options regardless of sexual orientation, race, gender/gender identity, class, or citizenship status."
The signers consisted mostly of "no-names"--people you've never heard of--along with a couple of handfuls of known gay and lesbian (mostly lesbian) academics, activists, former activists, and hangers-on. Some of the signers are heterosexual; most seem to be long-term advocates of the post-Marxian socialist and deconstructionist left.
As witness: The manifesto avoids gay/lesbian issues but is replete with venerable left-wing demands--e.g., an end of funding of "militarism, policing, and prison construction." And it emphasizes "women's issues" such as more money for "decent housing, childcare, healthcare and reproductive services," etc.
All this is not so much beyond same-sex marriage, it is in a different universe entirely. All gay marriage proponents want is a change in one law to allow them equal treatment. Manifesto signers want free goodies for everybody, subsidized by taxpayers. In other words, this is nothing but the economic and cultural left's attempt to link itself to the gay marriage movement.
This little exercise in socio-economic splenetics would have sunk without a trace except that social conservatives publicized it widely as proving their contention that gay marriage was the first step in a scheme to undermine and destroy marriage. Polygamy is just around the corner, they shouted. And, they added triumphantly, the gay marriage movement has finally come out of the closet and admitted what its real goal is.
Oh, blarney! None of this has been secret, none of it is new from the far left and it offers no support to gay marriage. In fact, vigorous opposition to marriage--a "bourgeois" institution denounced by Marx as legalized prostitution--has long been a mainstay of the Marxian and feminist left. They have routinely denounced marriage, any marriage, as an oppressive "patriarchal" institution, although no one bothers to explain exactly what is patriarchal about the marriage of two men or two women.
For instance, manifesto signer Paula Ettelbrick has written and debated in opposition to marriage--and specifically gay marriage--for more than two decades. For her to sign a manifesto that indicates even openness to gay marriage, if only as a tactical feint, seems disingenuous. I suspect the same is true for many other signers. If I didn't know better I would think the signers were trying to disrupt and discredit the gay marriage movement. Come to think of it, I don't know better.
Despite this well-known background, right wing polemicists eagerly welcomed the manifesto as proof that gay marriage advocates were finally being candid about their "real" intention to destroy marriage. It is, in fact, an indication of the utter poverty of the argument against same-sex marriage that instead of arguing against it directly, the right wing has to immediately change the subject and point to other familial configurations as social dangers--polygamy, legalized incest, whatever.
Bluntly put, there are no cogent arguments against gay marriage. One of the most prolific opponents of gay marriage, Princeton professor Robert George, after repeatedly trying to develop and present just such arguments, has more or less admitted that. In a co-authored article with one Gerard Bradley, George states that male-female marriage has an "intrinsic value" that "cannot, strictly speaking, be demonstrated" and that "if the intrinsic value of (opposite sex) marriage ... is to be affirmed it has to be grasped in noninferential acts of understanding."
That is about as close to acknowledging defeat as you can get without explicitly saying so. What if George Wallace had said that the superiority of the white race could not be demonstrated but could be "grasped in noninferential acts of understanding"? Certainly there was a sizable constituency for just such a view, but undemonstrable "noninferential acts of understanding" are a poor basis for creating public policy in a secular civil society.
Then too, Robert George and his colleagues have never explained very well what it is about their own requirement of a male-female polarity for marriage that excludes polygamy. It is hard not to suspect that George keeps harping on polygamy as an imagined consequence of same-sex marriage to distract attention from the far more obvious opening to polygamy his own principle entails. I'm sure many fine polygamous Muslims would agree.